Out of Slavery: Life After Debt

Out of Slavery - Life After DebtThe other night I was flipping through channels on TV (you know, 300 channels nothing good to watch) and I landed on the SyFy Channel and an episode of “Star Trek: The Next Generation”.

It was one of my favorites (“Redemption“) so I decided to go ahead and finish it.

Of course, since I was watching live TV, I had to endure the commercials.

Interestingly enough, several of the commercials were devoted to companies offering debt consolidation, credit counseling, and mortgage assistance services.

The promises by each of these companies were pretty enticing. Some of it went along the lines of: “Payoff all your debt quickly and easily!“, or “You have the right not to pay what you owe!“, or “We can save you thousands of dollars on interest!“, “It’s free!“.

It sounded too good to be true, and given we were watching the SyFy Channel, it made me think that these companies knew the audience would be willing to believe in claims that have very little to do with reality.

When something sounds too good to be true, it usually is. The reality is that there are still some lingering effects from the Great Recession of 2008.

Banks and lending companies are enforcing tight standards for granting credit. Even the government has tried to help by putting more controls around consumer credit card companies.

And certainly everyone had to stop and take a moment to evaluate how we handle money in view of potential down cycles of our economy.

But as you think about your particular situation, let me challenge you to consider some basic principles around debt and how to overcome it.

Regardless of where you are today: lots of debt, little debt, or no debt, these principles are true and when they are applied they will cause you to win with money.

There is life after debt.

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First, what’s God’s view on debt?

“The rich rules over the poor, and the borrower is the slave of the lender.”
Proverbs 22:7 (ESV)

Think about that statement for a moment. In essence it says that when you owe money to another person or entity, you are a slave to that person.

Think about what you owe. That person or entity chooses what interest rate you pay, when you pay, and what the minimum is. They control that portion of your income.

If you fail to pay for any reason they can take the asset or garnish wages after securing a judgment against you. They are in total control.

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Second, why do we use debt?

  • We don’t plan for expenses. When we don’t have control of our money through a budget it never seems we have enough to cover all expenses.
  • Lack of discipline for saving money leaves us relying on debt to cover emergencies.
  • We seek to take advantage of “deals” such as airline miles, hotel points, cash back, etc. We typically spend more when we use plastic. So we tend to spend more by chasing the magical free air fare or hotel stay.
  • We are influenced by the culture. We accept that paying interest is a way of life and that is the only way to get what we think we need.

There is no easy fix for getting out of debt.  There is no magical pill or perfect government program to get you out of debt.

You have to do it, you have to take control. You will get out of debt only when:

  1. You admit that using debt/credit will not bring you prosperity.
  2. You get sick to your stomach when you realize how much money you are paying in interest.
  3. You get tired of carrying the debt burden.

I know it can be stressful to carry the debt load because I have been there. I know it might seem impossible to pay it off but you can do it.

Let me tell you that I know it is possible to be debt free because my wife and I have done it. We paid off almost $50K in unsecured debt in 29 months.

We did it with God’s provision and by applying His principles. It was not easy but it was totally worth it.

Today, we are no longer slaves to debt. We are free of debt and we are walking with hope and in control of our finances.

How would life look to you if you were debt free? What could you do?

Contact me and let me show you how you can have life after debt.

It can happen!

“Debt is dumb. Most normal people are just plain broke because they are in debt up to their eyeballs with no hope of help. If you’re in debt, then you’re a slave because you do not have the freedom to use your money to help change your family tree.”
Dave Ramsey, Author and Personal Finance Expert

When Will I Get Out of Debt?

When Will I Get Out of Debt?That’s a great question isn’t?

Could you answer it with any kind of precision today?

I wanted to talk about how you can get out of debt.

About what it takes to end that slavery.

My assumption is that you want to be free of the chains and the burden of carrying debt.

However, that’s a big assumption because debt is normal and the numbers suggest that for the average American, that’s ok.

Just take a look.

The total household debt is $11.65T (as of Q1 2014):

  • Student Loan debt is at: $1.11T
  • Auto Loan debt is at: $875B
  • Credit Card debt is at $659B
  • Mortgage and Home Equity Debt stands at $8.7T

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As a financial coach I can teach you the process, the steps for getting out of debt.

I can also give you the reasons of why it is a good idea to live free of any debt.

What I cannot give you is the desire and the passion to get out of debt. That has to come from you.

In order to get out of debt, something has to change in your spirit, in your heart.

You will get out of debt only when you:

1 Admit that using debt will not bring you prosperity

You basically have to stop believing the lie that debt is a tool to help you win with money.

Just look at the high levels of credit card debt, car loan debt, and student loan debt.

Ask any of those people to see if they are prospering with their finances.

2. Get sick of paying interest

Do the math exercise on any of the debt items you are carrying today.

See how long is going to take to pay it off by just making the minimum payments each month.

Then, compute how much that item you bought on credit, will cost you in the long run.

Just do the math. It should scare you and/or make you mad.

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3. Get tired of carrying the debt burden

There has to be a moment when you say: “No more! I am not living this way! I have had it!!!!”

Until that happens you will be happy to go along and you will continue to rationalize your debt.

You will listen to the conventional wisdom that says debt is ok and that credit can help you.

When will you decide to become debt free? What are you waiting for? What will it take?

When you are ready to change your life and win with money, I can help.

 “The rich rules over the poor, and the borrower is the slave of the lender.”
Proverbs 22:7 (ESV)