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Are you familiar with Downton Abbey? It is a TV series, set in the fictional Yorkshire country estate of Downton Abbey, and it depicts the lives of the aristocratic Crawley family and their servants in the early 20th century, with the great events in history having an effect on their lives and on the British social hierarchy.
My wife and I have been hooked on it since we started watching it a few years back (it’s now in its 5th season). It is filled with great acting and great story lines.
When the series starts, the servants seemed to be resigned to just being servants forever. But as time passes and British society is changing, some of them begin to think of different possibilities.
In a recent episode, the topic of investing for the future came up. The head cook in the Abbey, Mrs. Patmore, receives an inheritance from a distant relative.
She wants some advice on how to put that windfall to work for her future. She asks Mr. Carson, the butler who is in charge of the entire service for the house.
As such, he is the overseer of all the servants and everyone looks up to him with respect.
Mr. Carson agrees to offer her some advice about investing. However, his information only comes from a brief conversation with Lord Grantham, the head of the family.
The family has been considering some renovations in the estate and he mentions a particular building company to Mr. Carson. Mr. Carson does not ask many questions about it, but he thinks he has enough to go back to Mrs. Patmore.
He tells her that investing in a building company would it be a good place for her money. But, as she asks questions, it is obvious Mr. Carson does not know much more of what he heard. He can’t even tell her if the company has gone public and it is open for investing.
Mrs. Patmore is not too comfortable with Mr. Carson’s advice. She eventually figures out a different option for her investing.
She decides to purchase a property that she could rent now, and then later it could serve both as a retirement home and also as a guest house which could generate some income.
When she conveys her decision to Mr. Carson, he is a bit disappointed that his advice is not taken to the letter. He says this option is just “very small beer”.
However, Mrs. Patmore explains that she is thankful for the advice. But she has to invest in something she understands. The way she puts it I think is brilliant: “It’s my kind of beer and I know how to drink it.”
There are some great lessons we can learn from Mrs. Patmore and her investment decision.
First, it is good to think and plan for the future. Mrs. Patmore was thinking ahead to the day she would no longer work at the Abbey.
You may be just concerned with the day to day operations of your household, but planning for the future should always be part of your financial plan.
Second, when it is time to invest your money, asking for advice it is always a good thing. Mrs. Patmore looked for advice from Mr. Carson, someone she respected.
Ask for advice from trusted friends and professionals and gather as much information as you can.
Third, invest only in what you understand. Mrs. Patmore understood food service and lodging, so she was comfortable in dealing with that and not with investing in the market directly.
You need to invest, not because someone on TV said so or because some family member told you about it.
You need to understand the investment vehicle well enough, so you can explain it to someone.
Of course, learning more about that particular type of investing is always an option so you can invest in it later. So maybe it is not right for you today, but down the road once you know more it could be an option for you.
Finally, and perhaps more important than anything. It is your money so it is your decision. Mr. Carson was not too happy with Mrs. Patmore’s decision.
But here is the thing: It was her money and not his money.
As you gather information and ponder your options, not everyone is going to agree. But you are in control of your financial destiny.
So have the courage to make your own decisions. At the end of the day, we are talking about your financial destiny.
Cast your bread on the surface of the waters, for you will find it after many days.
2 Divide your portion to seven, or even to eight, for you do not know what misfortune may occur on the earth.
With more money coming in, you will have the opportunity to make large purchases.
Question is, how do you decide on what to purchase first?
Let’s assume of course that you will save the money for the expense and will not use debt.
How then do we agree with our spouse on a priority order on the purchases?
Invariably, you will have different ideas on what to buy.
One of you may want to save the money for a nice vacation while the other person wants to beef up the emergency reserve a little more.
Or one of you wants to do a home remodeling project that has been put off for a while, and the other person wants to buy a full entertainment system.
Here is an approach my wife and I use to come to an agreement about large purchases.
As you look at shared goals for this year, this might help you as well:
When you are married, the only way to win with your money is to work together with your spouse.
Healthy finances lead to healthy marriages.
If you are not working with each other you are working against each other.
Try this method and let me know how it goes!
Do you enjoy road trips? It is one of my favorite ways to go on vacation, and at least once a year my wife and I take such a trip.
To avoid the strain on our own vehicles, we usually rent a car. For a long road trip, one of the must-have features for that car is of course cruise control, which allows me to set the speed at a fixed amount.
On those long portions of the trip, it is nice to put something on “automatic” and out of your mind.
In some instances, putting some elements of your finances on cruise control or “automatic” can be a good thing.
For example, if you are working on developing your savings habits, it might be a good idea to setup an auto-draft from your checking account to your savings account each month.
Or, if you want to make sure you are consistently saving for retirement or college expenses, an automatic transaction to your investment account would be a good option.
However, putting things on “cruise control” with your finances could also present a problem. That recently happened to me with our home insurance policy.
We had been with the same home insurance company for almost 20 years even through our move from Round Rock to Frisco. In all that time, I really did not have a reason to complain about coverage or service.
I also got into the habit of receiving the annual policy renewal letter on-line as opposed to receiving the paper version.
So far, nothing wrong with any of that. It saved me time, it minimized the amount of paper I had to file, etc.
But here is where I ran into trouble: Two years ago, I received the notice of renewal but I honestly gave it only a cursory review.
There was a big cost increase in the insurance premium and even though I saw it, I did not really process it.
It really did not hit me until I received a notice from my mortgage company with the corresponding increase in the monthly escrow amount.
I was a bit surprised, and of course, our monthly budget had to be adjusted. So even though we could handle the change, the fact that I had let something like that slip by me, left me with a bad taste.
So what did I learn? Well, I always tell you that you have pay attention to your money in all aspects. I had to apply that lesson to myself. Again.
This past December, when I received the annual renewal policy for our home insurance, I did a more detailed review. This time there was no major increase, no major surprise.
However, I took it one step further. I decided to look for other options with insurance to see if we could do better with coverage and get more value for the cost.
I contacted a trusted insurance agent and he reviewed our needs for both home and auto insurance.
I was pleasantly surprised that I could save about $400 annually combined between our home and auto insurance premiums. All I had to do was to take the time to ask for different options.
I made the switch and I am glad I took that step. Reviewing your insurance needs is just one example of looking at your overall financial plan.
So regularly, take a moment to review what you are spending on different areas of your budget (food, internet service, phone service, etc.). Take the extra step to look for alternative options.
You may end up not changing anything, but then again, you could find savings and more bang for your buck.
Now, where is that cable bill?
Typically if we want to have a peaceful family gathering or a nice evening with friends, we tend to stay away from the topics of politics and religion for sure.
And if we are honest, we also avoid talking about money.
The discussion of finances can get very, very personal and very, very uncomfortable, very, very quickly.
But is there a time when we can discuss the subject of money with friends and family?
And if so, how do we go about it?
In my opinion, there are 2 scenarios where it is ok to discuss money with friends and family:
So let’s see how we can talk about money with family and friends in these situations.
If someone is asking your opinion about money, they probably feel that you can be trusted and you have something to offer.
So start by building on that trust by showing the person grace. We all have made mistakes with money.
We all have made purchases we would like to take back. We all have wasted opportunities with money. This is not the time to offer criticism or judgment.
Second, stay on the topic. No need to spend time covering everything you want to say on the topic of personal finances.
This is not about you. This is about helping your family member or friend in their time of need.
Finally, talk about how you have personally handled that particular financial issue.
Share what has worked well for you and what did not work so well. Be transparent and real.
If you have good trusted resources, share them with your relative or friend.
If you are doing well with your financial situation, you will find yourself in this position sooner or later.
As I have written before, I think it is a mistake to loan money to a family member or friend. It changes the relationship into one of slave and master (Prov 22:7).
When this situation comes, you need to carefully evaluate how you define help. Of course, we want to show love and compassion.
But you have to be careful that you do not enable harmful behaviors. You want your relative or family member to get to the point where they can walk on their own strength financially.
So if you have the ability and you think the money will help them and not harm them, give them the money.
Buy the groceries for that week. Pay for the electric bill. Cover the medical prescription.
And since they have asked you for money, they have opened the door for you to give them help in some other way.
You can be part of their recovery by sharing your lessons learned. Talk to them about your own journey.
If there is a book or class that you think will help them, share it with them. If they are receptive, offer to pay for it.
Remember, your ultimate goal is to help your family member or friend never have to be in that position again.
If they are willing to receive your help, take the opportunity to walk alongside with them.
“So then, while we have opportunity, let us do good to all people, and especially to those who are of the household of the faith.”
Galatians 6:10 (NASB)
Did you know that our national debt is now over $18T)?
Since September 30, 2012, the National Debt has continued to increase an average of $2.43B per day.
Or how about this fact: as recently as 2012, The U.S. government had to borrow 46 cents of every dollar that it currently spends, four times the rate in 1980.
I could go on but you get the picture. This is the kind of stuff that should scare you or make you really upset.
We have dug ourselves a pretty deep hole and the situation looks hopeless.
However, while the solution to the national debt crisis is out of your hands, taking care of your personal debt is not.
But you need to reach a great level of disgust and frustration with yourself. You have to decide that you are done with debt.
That you are done being a slave to the lenders. That you are taking control of your financial destiny.
If you are ready to change, if you are truly done borrowing money, there is a way out.
So there you have it. You have the steps plus some additional guidance on how to get out of debt.
This is the process my wife and I used to get out of consumer debt almost 10 years ago.
It took us 29 months but we paid $50K in debt. We have never looked back.
It can be done but it is up to you. There is no product without the process. There is no victory without sacrifice.
Decide today and act today!
The rich rules over the poor, And the borrower becomes the lender’s slave.
Proverbs 22:7 (NASB)